Co-Dependency Disparceny

*Note to reader: this article was written back in April and with the New Moon in Gemini is more than appropriate to reflect with Venus, Saturn, Jupiter and Pluto in retrograde. So take the article as it resonates with you.*

Hey guys! I know it’s been awhile since I have posted an article and given how life quickly changes at any moment and the state of the world is chaotic. What I have come to learn is that through this entire transition that the outer world and inner world is currently experiencing is needed. A shift to a higher level in all areas of our lives and that we have to boldly go in the direction of where God/Source/Universe wants us to go. First as always I am going to state my disclaimer of: You are in control of You- not me! I am merely here to help those on their journey with the life experiences I have accumulated. I grew up in the saying of “ when one goes up we all go up!” and that is something I continue to reinforce in all areas of my life. My plan is to keep this article short and sweet to the point. Now the topic is codependency disparency and I know you're probably thinking “ wayment, did she mean discrepancy?” Nah, nope….what came to my mind actually came out! I double checked myself and Googled it (which you can if you chose to!) When I looked up both words and the definition stated:

Disparency-Noun. (countable and uncountable, plural disparencies) (proscribed) A significant discrepancy.)

Codependency- a behavioral condition in a relationship where one person enables another person's addiction, poor mental health, immaturity, irresponsibility, or under-achievement. Among the core characteristics of codependency is an excessive reliance on other people for approval and a sense of identity.

So with that being said it brings me to the next thing : when do you call yourself out on your own codependency issues that cause such a disparency in your everyday life? When do you get sick and tired of being sick and tired? I find that people want change on such a low key level that they refuse to acknowledge the fact that their own spirit is literally detaching from whatever toxic situation you're in or around. When does it stop wearing a mask everyday for the world and pretending that everything is fine when you have shit boiling inside you? When does it become enough? There comes a point in your life when you stop with excuses, being of a low vibration and go from being unaccountable to holding yourself accountable for the things you do, say and think. One thing is for certain there is no healthy growth in having codependency disparencies! Look at it like this: you're not living the authentic life that you see others live because you constantly hold yourself in auto pilot. So what do you want to do? Its decision time and only you can make this change. What you do not deal with in your conscious mind is going to wreak havoc in your subconscious mind. Before you can tackle anything in the outside world you must address the issues going on in your inner world.

Another helpful tip is that you can pull up your natal chart by going to: https://cafeastrology.com/chironsignstables.html and discovering where Chiron sits within your 12 Houses. Once you find that information it will let you know exactly where and what you struggle with aka your Achilles Heel. Whatever sign it is in you will be able to see what and where you need to work on. For an example: My Chiron is in Taurus and when I look at my full natal chart my 8th House in Taurus represents Death/Sex/Transformation. Once you have that information you can research for a deeper explanation.

Here is a link to the 12 Houses explain in simpler terms:

https://astrostyle.com/learn-astrology/the-12-zodiac-houses/

I hope that the information not only educates you but gives you a better understanding of yourself. So remember to be good to yourself and be kind and always #LiveLifePositive