November and December: Months of Clearing & Impending New Beginnings in 2020

Better late than never- I have tried several times to sit down and figured out what the topics would be for the last months of 2019. The more I sat and thought about it the more STUFF kept coming up! Everyday something was changing and evolving into something greater. Constant lessons kept coming up and new ways to view everyday life emerged. So, I decided to let the Universe take hold and just flow with it until I was able to and here we are! We are in the last few days of 2019 and so much clearing has occurred for most of us. We have had Full Moons and New Moons etc. that happened and influencing us to make room, to change and reach for our highest potential. Slowly getting rid of what no longer serves us and to bring in what is going to bring us more happiness, more joy, more gratitude and of course more love. There has been plenty of times during these last two months we have been pushing and pulling within ourselves to see what works for us and what does not. Learning steadily how to move out of our own way and accepting responsibility for the good and the bad that has happened to us. There is no need to look back in the past because you no longer live there and what is waiting for you on the other side is much more splendid than what you can imagine. This year alone we have conquered karmic lessons, toxic partners and has or have gotten us in aligned with our divine partners and matters that are truly meant for us. I have always been a firm believer that God will bless you the most when you are open and receptive to take in what is already meant for you. It is not always when we go looking for something that we find it. It is always when we are not searching that we end up with what we been wanting.

Before I go ham on this blog here is my disclaimer : I am in no way an expert on how you should live your life. I am just a soul that has had some experiences and just want to help those on their path. Everyone’s path is different and not always walked in the same manner but if I can help someone then my living is not in vain. We are all here to help each other in some capacity and I hope I can assist in anyway. So now that is out of the way I can continue…let’s see where the rabbit hole takes us! To be honest I don’t know where to begin because so much has gone on in these two months. There is so much that can be touched on however I am going to focus on the most important things that I have noticed. I am always doing research and the things I come across always seems to resonate with whatever is happening at the time. A repeating pattern of words such as balance, clearing, acceptance, clarity, transformation and my personal favorite a clean slate! The last two months we have had to make some tough decisions in how we want our lives to be and what kind of people we want surrounding us. Much introspection have gone on to the point where as they say, “ your elevation may require your isolation”. To invoke great change within you must remove yourself from certain people, places and things to see what true change needs to happen.

Relationships with family and friends will shift and either become stronger or fall off but that is not always a bad thing. The Universe is preparing you to make room for the things you deserve and the good you have planted to finally reap the benefits. To have a certain level of abundance some things need to be moved around or just simply put do away with. I always like to think of the phrase “ process your progress” because it enables you to see how far you have come and a remind you not to look back. November and December required us to be a little more transparent, realistic and open to the possibilities that would soon show to be concrete. Our faith in ourselves would help to lead us to our desired outcome but we cannot allow the negative self-talk and doubt come in. I am always reminded of anything worth having it is worth waiting for. If you do not have the patience and mindset to wait for what you want, then you did not really want it to begin with….Am I right?

We are all deserving of a new beginning in different capacities because we have been dealt with things that we did not deserve to begin with. We have come across individuals that we thought was for our greater good but only to be disappointed and hurt in the end. All the while not realizing the lesson that needed to be learned. Most of the time that is something we not comprehend until it is over because while it is happening we are having to deal with feelings, emotions and large amounts of bullshit! Yea I said it and made it very plain! These two months revealed a lot about us and if we took the time to dive in we really would of seen how we truly are. It is OK to disconnect from people, places and things to grasp the greater scope of things and see things for what they are. I know I am not the only that thinks that the first six months of 2019 is kind of like a blur because it feels like the latter part of the year we began to awake up to our current situation. Stop and think about it: what do you remember about the early part of 2019? Do you feel as though you learned any valuable lessons? Its like the things that occurred was heavily weighed and then the later part of the year things was placed on a scale and if things were too heavy some things had to go. Going into 2020 it became important to see what is worth the time, effort and if it can be applied to your long-term goals to your true authentic self. Finding emotional fulfillment within yourself but being able to move forward in divine confidence and owning the vision of what the best life can be! These last two months really focused not just on balance, clearing, acceptance etc. but what intentions you want to set in 2020. I came across this quote that stated, “ you can choose how you experience your reality.” Something to consider: where can have more nourishment in my life? What is it that I need to release? Another key factor to remember is that life will replenish things that were lost or removed. I find that it is only when you live in your authentic truth that it is the first step towards the peace and solitude that you seek. You eventually build a certain level of tolerance for things that no longer serve you and come to terms with instinctive learning. Applying that gut intuition to instances that you know will not be beneficial to and for you. Of course, you can expect to have the knee-jerker called fear that tries to come into play. You must remember that you have all the tools needed to overcome anything that comes your way. Remember what you are building to and how it is going to enhance your life. However, you are responsible for how you shape your life and no one else! If you are going to let people influence you make sure that they are qualified, and I am not talking about having a degree from school but a degree in living life to the fullest. It’s like they say have a conversation with someone much younger than you and another that is much older than you then you will have a different perspective on life. I hope 2020 is whatever you decide it to be and make sure you do it with love, honesty and integrity. Be kind to others as well as yourself and always #LiveLifePositive