January to March 2026: Error 404: Soulmate Not Found

Hey everyone, and I know I am like three months late, but HAPPY NEW YEAR, and welcome to the year of 10! Better late than never, but the first few months of 2026 were very interesting on so many seen and unseen levels. Am I the only one who feels that January was like 87 days long? I know I am not the only one who feels that way, but here we are, almost in April, and I hope that Spring will fight back against winter. Winter has felt like a mix of Mortal Kombat and Frozen, if we are being honest. Before I start, I always like to put out a disclaimer: I am not an expert on you, and my only hope is that someone learns from their experiences to make better decisions for themselves in the long run. You know your life better than I do, so I am here to shed light and help anyone I can on my own journey.

So let's start with why I am calling it the year of 10. It is simply because 10 in numerology relates to "karmic cycle completion." Interestingly enough, looking at the numbers separated: 1 means individual and leadership, whereas 0 means void, hence translating to rebirth. The energy shift behind it can be swift, leading to sudden closures in areas of your life and to manifestations coming more quickly than before. We can also attest to the Chinese calendar reflecting the year of the Fire Horse. Until February 2027, it is all about rapid movement, which can mean great change in and around our lives. So ask yourself the question," Do you have the burning desire to go after what you truly want? Let's keep that in mind as we progress throughout 2026. The time of settling is over, and following social norms deemed " normal" on social media is not in alignment with your highest calling. Finding the courage to tune everything out and tune back in takes more than willpower; it means trusting the process, even when the path isn't clear. This is a time to make your own path and make it the healthiest one for yourself.

Now, I am single as a pringle, so I never give relationship advice but only common sense advice. When I tell you I have given up on dating for now because the dating scene is just not it by a long shot. Everyone ( well, maybe not everyone) but a good consensus of folks, especially on social media platforms, is giving the feeling of " I am here for a good time and not a long time". And that is something I would not waste my time or energy on. The feeling that people miss out on building friendships first, which leads to healthy relationships, is important. I have noticed that people are jumping into relationships with strangers, not out of love, but out of convenience, and not wanting to be alone. That is a wave I cannot simply ride! I mean, living in the present moment is important, but it should be viewed in a broader context. Be single to do single things, but once in a relationship, that should be something special and respected. It is important to heal properly so your trauma does not jade someone else who desires a relationship. So learn to be in a relationship with yourself first, because you will learn to love, trust, and honor everything within you, so you can attract better. You are the greatest project that you will ever work on, so make sure to make yourself a priority and fix yourself before attempting to date. You cannot expect to give someone a fair chance if you don't take the chance and bet on yourself. Healing is not pretty and requires your undivided attention; otherwise, you will continue to repeat unhealthy cycles. Once you come to understand that God will delay certain things in your life due to your own ignorance. So you have the free will to rise to the occasion or continue to wallow in the consequences of your choices.

The other part that I notice in the dating pool is that too many have no sense of direction, and do not understand the concept of boundaries and the false reality of it looking like you have options ( on social media), but you don't. I come to find that too many people are taking performative ego measures to present a life that they are not embodying, thinking they are fooling the world, but honestly are fooling themselves. I will be happy when whatever the current phase is over. It's time to be real with life and call in with true intentions what you want.