What Are You Married To?

And here we are at the end of September on the brink of October! I pray everyone is staying mindful and safe during these uncertain times in the world. I know some of us are worried about what is coming down the road and the unknown can be daunting. However, I encourage all of us to leave a little room for hope and positivity. We should do our due diligence to transmute the negative energy and make it positive. It benefits you even more and those around you when you keep your thoughts flowing and positive. Finding the happy and peaceful moments is most crucial to your overall being. So before I go into today's topic my lovely disclaimer: I am not an expert on you and in no way shape or form can tell you what to do. However, I am here to share my thoughts and positivity to help elevate the vibration and give that good ole energy that is needed now. My prayer is that you gain some knowledge and see the wisdom that I am simply trying to pass on because when you help one you help all. If it sounds good to you let's continue the topic.

Taking a closer look at " What Are You Married To?" This was something that kind of popped into my head and I asked myself " mm interesting topic and of course- how can I relate to this since I am not married yet?" As the topic sat and lingered for a while I started to think about a few things I went through in the past and how I played a role. To state the obvious when you think about marriage between man and woman etc, other deciding factors and the more you think about it the deeper it gets. I believe the one thing we should look at is how big a role the good oh word “commitment” plays. Some people can easily embrace where others are terrified of it because of past experience. I am reminded that if something happens to you do not attach the feeling to the word but understand that the individual or situation gave it a negative meaning. Once you have healed you are to grow from that but sometimes that is not always the case. One of the things that I look at is that a person should be committed hence therefore married to themselves before getting involved with anyone. We have seen it so many times when people will dedicate themselves to a person, place or thing before doing that with themselves. We can become fixated on ideals, social norms, trends and many other things that eventually does not serve our higher good and then we wonder how did we get here? Use that opportunity to ask yourself a few questions:

“ Is doing this going to help or hinder me? Will my feelings in any shape or form be compromised where it can remove me from logical thinking to more emotional thinking? How well do I truly know myself?

The healing aspect happens during the process of you getting to know yourself. It is purely a solo journey into the deeper depths of you. It is only reserved for you and others cannot join you no matter how much we want someone there. It is about reaching that higher level of yourself and doing away with those things that you felt the need to be married to. I find it helpful to write down the goals you set for yourself as a person and what you are looking to get rid of to make space for the new you soon to emerge. It is appropriate that as I share this we have the Harvest Full Moon occurring tomorrow. Here is some insight on how it lines up with today’s topic:

“This full moon inspires us to find purpose in hardships and to keep moving forward despite the difficulties and challenges we encounter (externally and internally). The invitation of this cosmic event is not to be afraid to fully feel our feelings, to carry our scars with pride, and turn our pain into wisdom by consistently being there for ourselves and not running away from difficult feelings ( or realizations of self).” -Moon Omens

So with that being stated take a moment to think what are you married to that you need to divorce yourself from? What has to go so you can bring forth the new into your being? What type of mind frame have you been in that was a situationship that felt like a marriage but wasn’t? What are you married to in your spirit? What are you married to when it comes to your flesh? Think about it and consider that the end result is to bring you closer to your authentic self and allow you to fall head over heels in love with yourself.

Until next time and remember to be good to yourself and to others; be your type of kind and as always #LiveLifePositive!