All You Need To Know About The Month Of June With Some July Appeal: Initiating Your Lesson(s)

Good Morning, Afternoon or Evening whenever you come across this! I pray that this month and the one we are currently in brings significant change for you and more positive light into your world. I know with all the different transitions and energies within the month I know a majority of us are exhausted and now getting back to feeling like ourselves. If you are unaware of what is happening, take the time to research so you can stay in the loop. As always my lovely disclaimer that I am not an expert on you- you are! I merely share my experiences in order to help in any shape or form so take what resonates with you and then leave the rest. I have stopped and started to write this blog article for a number of reasons but ultimately as much as anyone else there are other things that come to shift us all to go higher. In order for that to happen the process of healing takes place. I know myself just as others are like “ oh my goodness does the healing process ever end?” I read that each time you level up there is something that is discovered that needs healing. It is an ongoing process and that “blimp” in your timeline that causes you to evaluate everything in your life including how you think, act and respond to everything. I know some have a love/hate relationship with self evaluation because you are getting to the core of what makes you of course you and what else needs “fine tuning”. So let’s dive deeper into the topic of initiating your lesson or lessons I should say LOL!

You would think the word “initiating” would be like a dirty word because of how it is abused repeatedly throughout the news and other outlets. The flip-side of that is when you begin something, to start you are initiating a change for yourself, it can start out small or big. It really depends on how you start as long as you do start...get what I am saying? There are certain realizations in our lives where we just do not want to face the music and are not tuned into the underlying factor that can be self-sabotaging and debilitating, which causes stagnation. Obstacles do not have to be hard and challenges do not have to be challenging. It really depends on your mindset and how to handle whatever situation, internal or external that comes about. I believe to be one of the greatest things you can ever do when it comes to initiating your lesson(s) is to trust your intuition. I know I have heard time and time again how hard it is, however if you really want change then you have to get serious about you! Be determined to reach the better version of yourself. You have to get on solid ground within and begin to get re balanced and value yourself so much more than before. Clear any codependency tendencies (not just from a relationship standpoint!) Focus on all the parts to get back to “whole” for yourself. To transform yourself you have to break your own lies, repeating cycles, self limiting beliefs and ideas that no longer serve you. As I have read many times in my research about surrendering and that it has the ability to release blessings. If you find that your blessings have stagnated or stalled in any way, ask yourself “ what haven't I released?”

Another case in point is you do not realize how much you outgrown something- people, places, things, behaviors, thought patterns etc until you make a conscious decision to do it and say NO. Remember that no is a full sentence, statement etc so do not allow anyone to make you feel bad for a decision that you made. People will knowingly and unknowingly put you in a box to categorize you to be “basic” like others they have dealt with because they either can’t or won’t take the time to understand you. Fear is a muthasucka if you let it run rampant within you because it will cause you to miss out on the most beautiful things life offers. I find it also to be counterproductive when you pray for change that you “think” will happen in the future when it can happen at any given time, because honestly the future is now. ] So you have to expect the change in you and around you and not be resistant to it because if God/Source deems you to go into one direction then flow into that direction. I am not promising it is going to make your journey easier but it will leave you to be more open and vulnerable to what’s to come. Surrendering, vulnerability, receptiveness etc are not dirty or negative words but are action words that if used correctly can change how you view and live life. Use your own mind to determine how to actively use these words and not solely depend on the views from others who are not in your position or how society chooses how to define them.

Another view that comes to mind in this process of initiating your lesson(s) is distance and time. Before you begin to rack your brain by what I mean let me put it like this: how many times have you felt close to who you truly are? How many times have you felt so far away from yourself? And how many times have you compared your journey to others that are in the same age range as you and questioned why you weren’t there as well? I am reminded of the quotes “ distance will tell you the real meaning of closeness” and “ time heals all wounds.” All too often there is an internal feeling that we crave from the external and it has a way of letting us know that in some way we are lacking something. We are human and we yearn for a certain level of affection and feeling that someone cares. Then like a knee jerk reaction some look for instant gratification on the outside instead of diving within to find the why within. It can make us codependent and give off the feeling of being “needy”. We have to get to the point of being so consciously aware of our needs/wants, know when to take a pause and sit with ourselves to see where an underlying problem/issue is and address it at that time. Insert that “ time heals all wounds” comes in and here is the reality of it: time doesn’t heal all wounds- it’s the passage of time that may take the edge off of the pain or let the dust settle but the elephant in the room still needs to be addressed. A lesson for some may come through a relationship or friendship that lacks something, triggers you and then you're forced to focus on yourself. However, some will ignore whatever they are feeling and proceed like business as usual. Never ignore your triggers because in a way it is alerting you a lesson needs to be learned. Blessings are delayed when a lesson isn’t learned in its entirety and will come up in a different situation. If time is used effectively in healing wounds you will discover an inner strength that you didn’t realize you had and it will also make you feel more alive. So close the distance from within and get closer to yourself and watch your outer world shift.

In that same arena with distance and time also comes communication and how a lack thereof can really affect the chemistry of anything that is looking to be created.. Ask yourself “ how well do you communicate with yourself? Thoughts?feelings?” How you communicate with yourself speaks volumes on how you can communicate effectively with others. So if you are having a conversation with yourself and you realize that it either doesn’t make sense and you're having a hard time understanding it then 9 times out of 10 if you attempt to communicate it to another they are going to have the same problem. What I am about to say may or may not work for some but just hear me out: sometimes you have to thank those that crossed you, hurt you, ghosted you, lied to you, betrayed your trust, or failed to make a healthy decision- thank them! But why? I know you're thinking "Seleta has lost every part of her mind!" The reason for this is because it changed you to make you stronger and better! You have to realize that everything that ever happens in life has two choices: you can let it change it for the better or continue to let it give you kidney shots as a painful reminder. Be the alchemist and take it from a negative and transmute it into something positive. Whatever pain was caused it helped you to unlock a part of yourself needed to go to the next level in your life. It doesn’t always take something outside of yourself to initiate a lesson(s) you need to learn. Anytime that you want a change just look yourself in the mirror and if you do not like what you see then you know what you have to do but do not forget to give yourself grace in the process.

Remember to be good to yourself as well others and always #LiveLifePositive 💙🧘🏽‍♀️