Month of March: The Anomaly Rock Bottom

Hello everyone and I am so glad that you..yes YOU decided to come back and spend a little time on my blog! I know these times are not only interesting but if you look at it from a different perspective it has provided some insight on what we need to work on. We are in a constant position of change and I always feel that if you pay close attention then you will see therefore will know and then act accordingly. I am going to leave that for you to work out, figure out and research because I cannot give all the answers LOL! I know its been awhile since I have posted but as you know life of course is never linear and always gives us the twists and turns knowingly, unknowingly and as a result we end up having to become the surfer that my mom always and I mean ALWAYS references to! As you know my lovely disclaimer that I am not an expert on you...that's your job and I am just here to give some assistance in some form or fashion. When you help one you essentially help all if you have the mindset, the heart space and the spirit to do so. Remember everything that we do and yes do not do affects us and someone else more than you think. So mindfulness and a higher level of awareness will keep you enlightened and ahead of the game.

So today’s topic is something many of us have heard from family, friends, church, business etc. and it's always in the context of rebirth or making decisions that benefit you and move you forward in a positive way. The other thing that comes to mind is when you have to sacrifice one thing in order to obtain something else there is that loss and gain factor. Remember that your sacrifice will not be the same as another’s even though situations can be similar it will never decrease the value nor take away how hard it may be or is. At the end of the day a sacrifice is still a sacrifice no matter how small or big it is. However, what is important is the knowledge you learn and passing the lesson that was required of you. So I call this the anomaly rock bottom because it is always requiring us to dig a little deeper than what we want or ready to and the whole unknown aspect. There are so many twists, turns and individuals involved that play a role in your rock bottom experience that will help you gain a higher and even wider perspective to see how you see a situation. One of the things that come to mind is the emotional part that is always triggered and then after that is the physical movement to how to manage what is going on. We are then confronted with the job of deciding what the next steps would be. However, the one thing that we forgot to take into consideration is simply this: just to pause and be still! All of this sudden movement happening, we slip and leave out sometimes we have to be still long enough for things to catch up with us mentally so we do not make bad or even worst decisions from an emotional state.

So you get to a place in your anomaly where you have to choose the mechanism in which you want to operate in? Do you want to operate at a higher level where you have no choice but to be open and receptive so the situation can be handled and is the road of less resistance? Or do you choose to close yourself off and allow that rock bottom situation to solidify and justify what has happened and along to make you feel like a victim when you are not? You have to have it in your mind that everything that is in you helps form the reality that you are in and yes even the people you choose to surround yourself with. We go through these nine stages of self realization/cycles of acceptance in order to be re-birthed into a better version of ourselves. Some people want the experience of the phoenix without going through the fire in order to extinguish what no longer will serve us. It’s the tough love we need in order to succeed and that for every “no” there are a string of “yesses!” but it requires discernment to get to a much grander evolution of yourself. There is not enough Maybelline or Old Spice to cover up the work that he or she needs to do on themselves. When you put yourself in this “anomalic mindset” ( yes I created a word!) of believing everything is fine and whatever the situation may be then it's time for a hard dose of truth that can only come from you. Your rock bottom can be as hard or as soft as you want it to me because the key component in it is YOU! You can decide to learn and grow or refuse and stay stagnated and miss out on the blessings that have your name on it. If you feel as though you are not ready guess what you are because you had to stop and think about it...would you look at that? Yes no one likes hitting rock bottom but in its true essence that is where you realize the strength of your potentiality and having the faith in yourself restored. I am reminded of that quote I saw somewhere that stated “ God allows U Turns!” You must understand that your voice is the way out of your rock bottom experience n o matter how hard or soft it is. When you change your mindset you essentially change how you view life and people. The only way out is in...don’t forget about that!

Remember you have the ability to create the life you want and no one else. Also be kind to others and as well as yourself. Always #LiveLifePositive